LOCATING YOUR INNER GUIDANCE

Holistic Alignment - Locating Your Inner Guidance

WHERE IS YOUR TRUE NORTH – Locating Your Inner Guidance

We all face decisions in our everyday lives, some small and seemingly insignificant, or some big and potentially life changing. With so many influences in our lives, how do we locate our inner guidance to discover our own true north?

Do we put our intellect to work, listing the pros and cons to rationalise our way to deciding? Or do we let our emotions guide our choices to be dictated by ungrounded desires or unwarranted fears? Perhaps we plead our case to others, presenting our options to friends or family and decide based upon external guidance.

All of the above have their place, but we also have an utterly reliable way to locate our internal guidance. A reliable system that bypasses even our own personal bias. This is where we find our own true north, our own sense of rightness, our internal GPS system. What is it you ask? Its your BODY !

YOUR BODY NEVER LIES

So the main way we can locate our inner guidance is through our Body. To illustrate the statement ‘The body never lies’, I’d like to share an experience I had many years ago. I only recognised the value in the experience through hindsight.

I was working on a creative project for about a year with a guy I knew. Every Monday he’d come over to my flat with his computer and we’d spend the day working together. Our roles were clearly defined and agreed upon at the outset of the project, or so I had thought.

Then one Monday, he knocked on my front door and I went to greet him as usual. As soon as he stepped inside the house, I thought I was going to vomit. I assumed that I had some kind of tummy bug or had eaten something that had disagreed with me. The nausea subsided and we continued our work. The next Monday the same thing occurred, again I put it down to some kind of digestive issue. It continued for weeks while the whole time I continued to dismiss it as nothing more than a dietary reaction.

TRUST YOUR GUT – Locating Your Inner Guidance

Months later, I discovered my so called ‘friend’ had stolen my intellectual property claiming my creative work as his own. It was at that stage I realised that my body had been literally giving me a ‘gut-feeling’, that something wasn’t right for quite some time.

The intellectual property issue never got resolved but I learnt an invaluable lesson through that experience to literally ‘trust my gut’. I’ve also reclaimed my creativity in many other fulfilling ways since then and have simultaneously discovered that creativity is life force energy that cannot in fact be stolen.

My point in explaining this experience is that our BODY is our very own internal guidance system, with it’s own inbuilt GPS if you like. It faithfully lets us know when something is off, and it points us in the direction of what is in alignment with us by how it feels in our body.

YOUR FELT SENSE – Locating Your Inner Guidance

The term “Felt Sense‘ emerged from the work of American Philosopher Dr Eugene T Gendlin who founded the psychotherapeutic technique called “Focussing”.

The example I’ve given is in relation to my own dominant ‘felt sense’, meaning a literally sensation that that is felt in the body. Yours however maybe different to mine. Perhaps you can ‘smell’ when something isn’t right; or you find your jaw clenching; maybe you feel temperature changes or like your energy has been zapped. Maybe you get a visual sign or an auditory cue to guide you; a tingling; a tightness; an ease; a rush of energy. What is it for you? What’s your own dominant felt sense? It could be one, it could be many, I simply invite you to pay attention to your own body and discover for yourself.

SELF ENQUIRY -Locating Your Inner Guidance

In aiding the process of tuning in to discover your own felt sense, there are two questions that I find very useful. You can ask these questions to yourself in relation to another person, and idea, a decision, or a choice between two scenarios/options. It helps to be very still and relaxed when doing this and it’s important to make sure that you’re not disturbed. Then simply ask yourself:

  • Does it deplete me or energise me?
  • Does it limit or liberate me?

Then pay attention to your body’s response. One option/choice may feel lighter, more energising, expansive or warmer; the other may feel heavier, depleting, contracting or cooler.

Remember this is not an intellectual process as such, nor is it emotional guidance you’re seeking here. It’s your own physical, bodily ‘felt sense’ that you’re tuning into through this process, and that sense gives you another layer of information. You can then that add this new information to the intellectual understanding and emotional feedback you may also receive.

A PERSONAL NOTE

I’ve used this self-enquiry process many times to locate my own inner guidance when faced with the ‘Big Decisions’ that life sometimes asks us to make. More recently though, I’m engaging with my own ‘felt sense’ more frequently and it’s kind of fun, much like a game of ‘choose your own adventure’. Tuning into our felt sense is a skill that we can develop, and like anything that we practise, we can get really good at it!

It’s actually a way of tuning into our subconscious mind, (which is essentially our body). Kinesiology uses this same process during muscle-testing, it’s simply a more direct way of connecting with our subconscious.

So give it a go and have some fun with it, your own true north will never lead you astray!

With Love and Blessings

Chrissy x

Holistic Alignment offers a variety of treatments to suit your unique needs. Our Practitioners Chrissy Diamond and Lorelei Messersmith will be happy to discuss any questions you may have regarding your treatment to assist in putting you at ease. Contact Chrissy or Lorelei to book your first Holistic Alignment.

IN THE SHADOWS OF PROGRESS

How perfectionism and Imposterism sneakily block us from living the
life of our dreams.

Whether it be professionally in business or creatively through art, it’s likely, at one point or another self-doubt has reared its head and stopped you from developing and sharing a brilliant idea or new amazing new skill/craft. It’s apparently very normal to experience these feelings, however, have you ever felt almost paralysed from taking action towards something you really, really wanted to do?! Like, there was this invisible force holding you back from getting stuck in, even though you were 100% ready to go?

If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone my friend, this is something I live with, and try to overcome, daily! Heck, even writing this post is triggering. Knowing this is something I’m deeply passionate about and genuinely wanting to share with you, yet a piece of my brain is literally saying “OMG, stop! What do you think you’re doing?! You can’t talk about this stuff, you don’t know what you’re talking about and I bet none of this will make any sense”, even though, on some other deep level, I’m aware of just how capable I am, and I know I can do it! It’s such a bizarre experience, to be present to both of these experiences and sensations simultaneously, which I believe is the crazy world of;

Imposterism or Perfectionism (or Both, if you’re really lucky  😊)

So what are these beasts:

Imposterism (Imposter Syndrome)

  • Imposter syndrome is the persistent belief that you are not as competent or talented as
    others perceive you to be, despite evidence of your skills and accomplishments.
  • It often manifests as self-doubt, fear of being “found out,” or attributing success to luck
    rather than ability.
  • It can lead to functional and creative paralysis, overworking, or reluctance to share work.
Holistic Alignment Musings; Perfectionism and Imposter Syndrome

According to Dr Valerie Young, there are Five main types of Imposter Syndrome; 

1️. The Perfectionist

  • Believes work must be 100% flawless.
  • Struggles to finish projects due to fear of imperfection.
  • Tends to over-edit, over-polish, and delay sharing work.

2️. The Superhuman

  • Feels they must be working harder than everyone else to prove their worth.
  • Takes on excessive workloads, leading to burnout.
  • Struggles with resting or taking breaks.

3️. The Natural Genius

  • Believes they should excel effortlessly.
  • Feels shame when struggling to learn or improve.
  • Avoids creative challenges that don’t come easily.

4️. The Soloist

  • Believes asking for help is a sign of weakness.
  • Struggles to accept feedback or collaboration.
  • Tries to handle everything alone.

5️. The Expert

  • Feels they must know everything before starting or sharing.
  • Constantly pursues new knowledge instead of taking action.
  • Fears being exposed as “not knowing enough.”

Perfectionism (The Perfectionist) 

Holistic Alignment Musings; Perfectionism and Imposter Syndrome

Perfectionism is the belief that everything we create must be flawless, and while aiming for excellence isn’t all bad, perfectionism often leads to:

  • Procrastination – Not starting because you fear the result won’t be good enough.
  • Over-editing – Spending excessive time refining work instead of sharing it.
  • Avoiding challenges – Sticking to what feels safe instead of pushing creative boundaries.
  • Fear of failure – Viewing mistakes as proof of incompetence instead of opportunities to grow.

The Combo (BOTH of these Bad Boys… Ooooo yeah!)

Yes, you can absolutely be a perfectionist and experience imposter syndrome at the same time. In fact, the two often go hand-in-hand, as you can see, Perfectionism is Imposterisms #1 type, and although they’re not quite the same, perfectionism fuels Imposter Syndrome with its:

  • High standards – Perfectionists set extremely high standards for themselves, making it nearly impossible to ever feel satisfied with their achievements, leading to the belief that they are not good enough and are “faking it.” 
  • Fear of failure – The constant worry about making mistakes or not meeting their own rigorous expectations can amplify feelings of inadequacy and self-doubt, which are core components of imposter syndrome. 
  • Attribution bias – Perfectionists often attribute their successes to external factors like luck or easy tasks, rather than their own abilities, further reinforcing the imposter feeling. 

No matter if you experience one or the other, or both, don’t fret! You are NOT ALONE! I promise! Nearly 70% of adults either suffer from, or have experienced an episode or ten with perfectionism and 25-30% with Imposter Syndrome. So, for a topic I personally don’t think is discussed enough, there sure does seem to be a fair few of us out there that are affected.

But, why me?

Holistic Alignment Musings; Perfectionism and Imposter Syndrome

These juicy shadow blocks are, as we now know, often linked and can be caused by a combination of factors including: 

  • High expectations 
  • Fear of failure 
  • Low self-esteem 
  • Early childhood experiences with unrealistic standards 
  • A strong need and desire for acceptance/approval, and 
  • A tendency to attribute successes to external factors rather than personal ability, leading to a constant feeling of being a fraud despite achievements.

Essentially (brace yourself), both stem from a deep-seated anxiety about not being/feeling good enough, which often drives us to strive for unattainable perfection while simultaneously doubting our competence. DANG! 

Not all is lost: Making Friends with my Shadows

I imagine, that hurt a bit, and I also know that we’re already in a system that likes to make us feel “not enough”, so how can we, as semi functioning adults, deal with this added layer of blockage? Well, like we deal with everything else we feel we need to work on, right?! *Insert smiling sweaty emoji*

  • Self-awareness – Recognize if this is indeed a pattern you’re familiar with. When perfectionist thoughts and imposter feelings arise, identify the situations or triggers that bring them on and be as mindful as you can in the future. 
  • Challenge negative thoughts – Actively question the validity of your self-critical thoughts and replace them with more positive, loving or realistic affirmations. 
  • Focus on progress – Set achievable and realistic goals and celebrate small wins along the way.
  • Practice self-compassion – Be kind to yourself, you’re doing amazing and everyone makes mistakes, that’s how we learn. 
  • Identify your strengths – Make a list of your skills and accomplishments to remind yourself of your awesomeness. 
  • Seek feedback – Ask for constructive feedback from trusted colleagues or loved ones to gain a more accurate perspective of who you are and what you’re capable of. 
  • Set realistic expectations – Be aware of and adjust any standards that need to be more aligned with your abilities and desired outcomes. 
  • Professional help – If your perfectionism and imposter syndrome significantly impact your life, definitely consider seeking a support group, coach or therapist to help make life a little more manageable. 

Dancing with our Shadows:

We’re all so capable of doing the things, taking actionable steps and living out our dreams, I mean just look, I’m almost done with this article and although I fought with my inner perfectionist and imposter the whole way, I’m here and I’m glad I did. Because I genuinely hope it helped. 

If you’re leaning towards having either or both of these ‘shadows’, my last nugget to leave you with would be the biggest thing that helps me through it now, and that’s having a COMMUNITY.

Finding likeminded people who are in the same boat can be super EMPOWERING and INSPIRING, so if you feel this is something you want to get involved in and go deeper with, I’d love to invite you to an upcoming workshop ‘BREAKING FREE: Overcoming Imposterism and Perfectionism’. Where we can go through and understand these blocks and ourselves a little better, together! 

Click the link here for more details and wherever you might be on your journey, I wish you all the best my friends. 

Sarah xx

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GETTING BACK ON THE UPWARD SPIRAL

Holistic Alignment Upward Spiral
Holistic Alignment Upward Spiral

ASSESS WHICH DIRECTION WE ARE HEADING IN

We know how it feels when we’re in the flow, when things are working out for us, when life is on our side and we’re on the upward spiral. We’ve all experienced this sense of hope and positivity, the feeling that: we’re glowing, we’re walking with a gentle spring in our step, the sun is shining and time is on our side.

Yet sometimes external circumstances trigger us into viewing things from a negative perspective. One thing goes wrong, and then another, and life feels as if its spiralling in the wrong direction like a bad game of dominos. With this experience, comes the feeling that nothing is working out for us, that life is somehow against us and we’re trapped in a never-ending, inescapable loop.

EMPOWERMENT ALLOWS US TO CHANGE DIRECTION

Living from a place of empowerment involves deliberately taking responsibility for our lives, our emotions and our experiences. From this place of integrity, we give ourselves the opportunity and capability to alter the direction that we are moving in and get back on the upward spiral.

This position doesn’t deny the reality of whatever challenges we may be facing but it does ask us to question if our perspective is actually reinforcing those challenges or supporting us through them..

Does our internal narrative build us up or tear us down? Does the story we’re telling ourselves (and everybody else), help us to feel better or worse about our circumstances and our ability to manage whatever comes our way? Is the song we keep singing an anthem of encouragement or of hopelessness?

WHAT DO WE WANT MORE, TO BE RIGHT OR TO FEEL BETTER?

Often, in an attempt to shield ourselves from feeling the difficult emotions that occur with unresolved traumas, we engage in self-deception. This shows up when we wear the armour of false pride in an effort to protect ourselves from our own vulnerability. That pride seeks to blame our external experience for our internal state of being. As long as we’re employing that method of self-protection we’ll never feel like we’re in charge of our own lives. Instead, it will always feel like external forces hold all of the power and we are but helpless victims.

The problem with assuming the position of being a victim is that we can always find evidence to support this perspective in order to prove ourselves as being right. This sense of right-ness then reinforces our victimhood and it becomes a perpetual feedback loop. Yet does reinforcing our sense of rightness in identifying as a victim allow us to feel any better?

An alternative to this self-defeating cycle, is to decide what holds more value for us – being right, or feeling better? If we commit to feeling better then we can redirect our energies towards telling a different story about ourselves and our circumstances. One that supports our courage, our willingness and our ability to change our direction and get back on the upward spiral.

CHANGING OUR NARRATIVE

One way of getting back onto the upward spiral is by redirecting our internal narrative. We can do this through the process of intentionally shifting ourselves into a higher vibrational emotion.

The spectrum of emotions detailed in David R. Hawkins “Letting Go”, shares lower vibration emotions through to higher. Following this spectrum, I’ve added a phrase to be spoken/used in the 1st person to actively support this reframing.

DIRECTIONS TO GET BACK ON THE UPWARD SPIRAL

1: Identify the level of emotion that you’re currently experiencing. (Be honest with yourself, this is a private exercise so no one needs to know what level you’re currently at).

2: Gently raise your emotional state by identifying with the feeling of the phrase above your current level. (You can say it out loud or just feel what the phrase communicates emotionally).

3: Continue this process up the emotional spectrum until you are experiencing a better emotional state.

NOTE: If you feel tired or drained during the process, it’s important to honour yourself, pause and take a rest. You don’t have to get to the top of the spectrum today, even shifting to the next level up will feel slightly better.

EMOTIONAL SPECTRUM (LOWEST TO HIGHEST) ON UPWARD SPIRAL

SHAME – I’m not worthy

GUILT – It’s my fault

APATHY – I don’t care

GRIEF – I care and I lose

FEAR – I fear my emotions, I resist

DESIRE – I long for, I want, I don’t have

ANGER – It’s your fault, I resent

PRIDE – I’m better than you, I’m bigger than this

COURAGE – I’ll get through it, I can endure it

NEUTRALITY – I’m ok, its ok

WILLINGNESS – I transform, where’s the light? / where’s the way forward?

ACCEPTANCE – I include, I harmonize

REASON – I see, I solve,

LOVE – I embrace, I’m whole, you’re whole, we’re whole

JOY – I remain, I’m constant, I belong, I’m seen, I’m connected, I’m fulfilled

PEACE – I am bliss, I am one, I am light, I am energy, I am all

HONOUR WHERE YOU’RE AT

When we’ve experienced a significant grievance, trauma or unexpected happening, sometimes we need to stay exactly we’re at. For example, attempting to use the upward spiral to jump from the level of shame, up to joy and peace after discovering a betrayal, would actually be unreasonable. This jumping from one level to another in order to avoid our emotions is called bypassing and it doesn’t work because our emotions always have a way of “telling their truth”. The key with moving through any experience on order to gain the most value, is to listen to our deep emotional truths. Its’ called authenticity, but it’s a private encounter between you and yourself alone.

REACH OUT IF YOU NEED SUPPORT ON THE UPWARD SPIRAL

Finally, some emotional content is really difficult to navigate through on your own. Being able to acknowledge this and reach out for some support, shows humility and courage that in turn lifts you into a better place on the upward spiral.

Wishing you ALL the very best!

Written by Chrissy Diamond

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Dealing With Disappointment At Christmas

Dealing with disappointment at Christmas
Dealing with disappointment at Christmas

Dealing with disappointment at Christmas can be tough! Christmas is a time to express joy, generosity and love with the people that we care about, our family and friends. Yet it’s also a time that can magnify sadness, lack and loss. When the Spirit of togetherness and belonging are so strong, the polar opposite of loneliness and isolation can also occur.

It’s difficult to feel disappointment and grief at the time of year that is loaded with expectations to feel differently. Remembering loved ones who have passed; broken relationships; let downs from family or friends can be painful. These memories can invoke feelings that somehow seem taboo during this time of celebration.

DEALING WITH DISAPPOINTMENT AT CHRISTMAS

ACKNOWLEDGE YOUR FEELINGS

Acknowledging your feelings reduces internal resistance and helps you to process and eventually transform and release your difficult emotions.

Your feelings don’t disappear just because you ignore them. Suppressing emotions only creates more internal pressure within your mind and body that eventually just wants OUT!

According to Neuroscience researcher Alex Korb, the act of being able to label your emotions actually reduces their effect on your brain.

Korb cites an MRI study, titled “Putting Feelings into Words” where participants viewed pictures of people with emotional facial expressions. Each participant’s amygdala mimicked the same emotions present in the picture. When they were asked to name the emotion, their prefrontal cortex was activated, reducing the emotional reactivity of the brain. By actively labelling the emotions, the emotional impact on participants was reduced

Seek to find some words to describe the emotion that you’re feeling e.g. anger, grief, despair, disappointment, guilt, regret. The mere act of labelling your emotions reduces your reaction to them.

ALLOW YOURSELF TO REALLY FEEL IT

Let yourself really sink into the feeling that you are experiencing in your body. Where do you feel it in your body the most? Does it have a specific sensation, temperature, texture or even colour attached to it? Now, let yourself really feel it without resistance. What we resist persists, so the key to getting through it is to really feel it.

If you want to cry, let yourself cry. Maybe it feels like a deep black hole inside you, just let yourself sink into that feeling for a few minutes. Perhaps it feels like a hot ball of rage, there is usually grief and sadness underneath it….sink into that. When you are afraid, sink into the fear.

The act of experiencing your emotions will not kill you. However, trying to avoid what you’re feeling can perpetuate behaviours that can have a detrimental effect on your overall health. Feeling your emotions is an act of befriending them that helps us find our way through them.

TRANSFORMING YOUR EMOTIONS

One extremely effective way of transforming difficult emotions is through E.F.T. (Emotional Freedom Technique). This technique involves tapping on acupuncture points which releases the physical, mental and emotional charge felt within the body.

Here is a demonstration of the technique that I use both in professionally and personally.

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCF5ihzEexpCOluB2AA9oh2Q

By labelling your emotions and transforming them using the tapping technique, you can then redirect your focus towards cultivating gratitude.

CULTIVATING GRATITUDE

Gratitude literally makes us feel better because it activates the region of the brain stem that produces dopamine and dopamine makes us feel good. Another positive effect of gratitude is that it boosts the production of serotonin, which enhances our mood during daylight hours.

You can positively alter your biochemistry by asking yourself this important question: what are you grateful for? The asking of the question is the important part because remembering things to be grateful for stimulates the efficacy of neurons in the pre-frontal cortex of the brain, as Korb also explains.

Expressing gratitude within your relationships also creates a positive social effect that can enhance the happiness of the individuals within the relationship. Everyone likes being appreciated, it’s that simple! So expressing thanks to your deserved loved ones is beneficial for all involved.

SEEK SOLACE THOUGH OTHERS STORIES

Part of the struggle with experiencing painful emotions is that we can feel quite alone in our suffering. Hearing or reading stories of how others have gotten through their own internal struggles can help us realise that we’re not alone in ours and this can help reduce our overwhelm.

One book that beautifully articulates overcoming these internal struggles is “Healing through the Dark Emotions” by Miriam Greenspan. https://miriamgreenspan.com/

FIND THE GOLD WITHIN

Finally, allow your painful emotions to cause you to become so unsatisfied with them and the life experience that they produce so that you learn to transcend them. This is not achieved by avoiding them but by going through them. Like the alchemist, who turns lead into gold, find the gold within your experience.

Buried within my most painful life experiences, I have always discovered a greater truth. This truth has led to deeper understanding and an illumination of the Spirit of Life within me, If you’re struggling with your own difficult emotions, I wish the same for you.

In Love and Recognition of the regenerative Spirit of Life within YOU.

Wishing you inner Peace this Christmas!

Written by Chrissy Diamond

Holistic Alignment offers a variety of treatments to suit your unique needs. Our Practitioners Chrissy Diamond and Lorelei Messersmith will be happy to discuss any questions you may have regarding your treatment to assist in putting you at ease. Contact Chrissy to book your first Holistic Alignment.



THE PARADOX OF HEALING

TRUE HEALING IS THE REALIZATION THAT THERE WAS Never anything TO HEAL in the first place
The paradox of Healing

The Healing Principle

The principle of healing, be that physical, mental, or emotional, recognises the innate perfection of the life-force within. From this perspective, by focussing on the flawless renewable energy source of every individual, there is nothing to heal.

I realise that may sound like a paradox. Especially coming from someone who has worked in the “healing industry” for nearly 2 decades. However, the truth is, I’ve never called myself a “healer”.

Healing implies that there is something to fix within the individual. Yet the quintessential nature of every human being, is the vibrant life force energy expressing itself in fullness. Healing then is releasing anything that blocks that expression of that life force energy. So that the individual can return to their original state of being in complete health and wellness.

Seekers of healing are often focused on what they perceive to be wrong within their body, mind and emotions. Much time, money and valuable energy can be spent on these perceived “wrongs”.

The key here is that the perceived “wrongs” of illness, and dis-ease are simply experiences. Experiences that are not permanent states of being. Illness and disease are changing expressions of impermanent imbalances, disruptions or blockages of the vibrant energy that sustains all life.

What Do You Identify With?

People often identify with these experiences of imbalance and forget their natural way of expressing health and vitality. They can form chronic conditions of pain, illness and disease that they sometimes mistake as their permanent state of being. In doing so, they essentially cut themselves off from this ever flowing source of life force energy. The same energy that brings about the very “healing” mechanisms that they seek.

Healing is really more of an allowing, it’s a stepping out of the way of the innate wisdom within the body/mind. Allowing the intelligence within the body to organise its myriad of functions creates balance, equanimity and harmony and flow.

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The Paradox of Healing
REMEMBER YOUR ESSENTIAL NATURE

Your essential nature is energy. Some people call that energy: God, Source, Universal Intelligence, The Unified Field, Consciousness, Spirit. It doesn’t matter what you call it, the infinite combination of waves, particles, atoms, molecules and cells is energy. That energy is what forms YOU. This energy is your whole and complete essential nature. It is the same energy that the earth, moon, sun and entire universe is made up of!

Returning to your essential nature requires your attention to be focused on the vital life force within you. You cannot return to what is natural and right by focussing on whatever you perceive to be the “wrong”. Healing is an act of remembering your “rightness”, your innate perfection. The precise and unique architecture of your exquisitely intricate mind and body.

This returning to your essential nature involves trusting your body and mind. Do you consciously tell your autonomic nervous system to activate all of the physiological processes involved in digestion? Do you tell your pancreas to excrete the insulin required to allow glucose into the cell for energy consumption? No, you trust the innate wisdom of your body/mind to do this naturally.

Healing is surrendering with confidence, to your natural ability to find balance. On the physical level, its called homeostasis – the body’s natural ability to return to a state of cellular equilibrium. On the mental/emotional level its called letting go and returning to your natural state of peace and harmony.

The Paradox of Healing
RE-FOCUS YOUR ATTENTION

You may have heard it said “Where your attention goes, your energy flows”. This means that whatever your attention is focused upon, e.g. what you perceive as being wrong, or right, will increase.

On the emotional level, focusing on things to be grateful for actually releases our good feeling hormones, endorphin’s. So the practice of gratitude redirects our attention and energy away from our perceived “wrongs”. It also gives us a chemical boost that enhances our ability to feel good. This in turn, promotes healing mechanisms within our body and mind.

BE CONSCIOUSLY AWARE

Healing is first about remembering your essential nature and then letting go and surrendering to this vital life force within you. It also involves being conscious of the process.

Many would say that consciousness IS healing. This awareness can guide you to take any actions that assist your body/mind to return to wholeness and health. The key here is that YOU are the life force energy that guides this process.

AREAS YOUR INNER HEALER MAY GUIDE YOU TO

Some areas of health that you may intuitively feel require your attention could be:

  • Nutrition and hydration.
  • Movement/exercise.
  • Emotional outlets.
  • Psychological processing/Psychotherapy.
  • Massage/bodywork/Energy-work.
  • Talking therapy/Counseling/coaching.
  • Meditation/Breath-work.
  • Forgiveness/Releasing Fear.

The invitation is to trust your inner healer and the guidance that you get through your thoughts, feelings and senses. Let them lead the way to the full expression of your health and well being

Your natural state of being is radiant, vital, flowing energy and healing is simply a returning to your natural state. So from this perspective, there is nothing to heal. It’s simply a matter of remembering who and what you already are!

The Paradox of Healing

Written by Chrissy Diamond

Holistic Alignment offers a variety of treatments to suit your unique needs. Our Practitioners Chrissy Diamond and Lorelei Messersmith will be happy to discuss any questions you may have regarding your treatment to assist in putting you at ease. Contact Chrissy to book your first Holistic Alignment.


THE KEYS TO MANIFESTATION

The Keys to Manifestation

Manifestation involves bringing into reality that which you consciously desire for your life. Being able to do so in an ongoing way requires you to be clear about what it is that you desire in the first place. For this to then be attainable, your desires must align with your personal values, sounds obvious right?

Well it is and yet sometimes the course of life, we can get distracted in attending to various commitments that crop up. Through family commitments, careers, health challenges and general life admin, we can lose touch with what we most deeply desire.

Let’s consider that there is no external power or force that can give you the life of your dreams. Nor is there any external power or force that is to blame if your life is not what you want it to be. If you don’t like the life you’re currently living, YOU can change it. Yet if you’ve simply got stuck on the treadmill of existence and want more than your current reality….read on

Get clear about what you want

Desires and values change throughout the course of life. Self awareness is vital in being able to identify what your personal values are and what you truly desire. This will differ when you are 20 compared to when you are 80.

Some questions that might help to guide you are:

  • What excites you or what used to excite you when you were a kid?
  • Where do you feel the most joy in your life e.g. what activities, people help to tap you into this
  • What creates the greatest sense of harmony, peace, contentment for you?
  • What do you enjoy the most about what you already do?

Does it align with your core values?

If what you want to achieve or attain does not align with your underlying values, the manifestation of your desires will be sabotaged.

An example of core values might be:

  • Being authentically fulfilled in your primary relationship
  • Having a career that allows you to live a healthy life
  • Having the time to invest in family, and important relationships
  • Living a life where harmony and peace, joy and fun are a priority
  • Having an altruistic aspect to your work/life
  • Earning an income that supports your chosen lifestyle and allows you to be able to assist others through donating to charities and/or contributing to society through other acts of generosity
  • Living in a sustainable way that reduces your ecological footprint

How will you feel when it’s your reality

The Keys to Manifestation

Literally imagine your desired outcome. Close your eyes and sink into your body. How will you feel? Have you ever felt this way before? Remember that feeling…the physical sensation in your body/mind/emotions. Allow your mind theatre to take you into this new reality like a dream, and summon up the feelings that emerge when you’ve achieved that goal. The important part here is to feel it in the present moment as if it has already occurred. Let the emotion well up from inside you like a fountain and stay in that emotional state for as long as you can. REPEAT DAILY.

Celebrate others who have achieved what you want to achieve

Instead of allowing feelings of jealousy, envy or self pity to contaminate your desires, celebrate with others who have achieved their goals as if they were you. This good intention creates a positive feedback loop that reinforces the vibrational state that you cultivate when you access your own feelings about achieving your goals. This practice aligns your energy field with that which you intend to manifest and assists you in bringing it into your reality.

Be undivided in your intention

If you have clarity about your desired outcomes as they align with your core values, anything other than your intended outcome is simply a distraction. Whether you’re suffering from an onslaught of self doubt, unwelcome judgements from others or material hurdles, they’re all just distractions from your intended outcome.

The key here is to acknowledge the distraction and then take your focus, attention and energy back to your desired outcome.

Take an action step towards your goal every day

Even if you only have 15 minutes spare, take that step, write that email, make that phone call, go for that walk/run, get out that canvas, sit down at that piano, cook that new recipe, deposit that money. Bit by bit, those 15 minutes turn into hours, days, weeks months and years and before you know it you’re looking back on what you’ve already achieved!

Take breaks to re-energize

It’s important to listen to your body and rest when your energy is starting to fade. Your goals will never be achieved if you break in the process of achieving them and so your health and vitality is paramount. Discouragement can set in when we feel fatigued and then start making mistakes as a result, so avoid this by giving yourself a break from time to time, switch that computer off…it will still be there tomorrow (just make sure you’ve saved your draft!!).

Keep going

This cartoon image sums up my final point beautifully

The keys to Manifestation


NEVER GIVE UP; YOU MAY BE CLOSER TO REACHING YOUR GOALS THAN YOU THINK!

All the best in whatever it is you’re intending to manifest!

Written by: Chrissy Diamond

Holistic Alignment offers a variety of treatments to suit your unique needs. Our Practitioners Chrissy Diamond and Lorelei Messersmith will be happy to discuss any questions you may have regarding your treatment to assist in putting you at ease. Contact Chrissy to book your first Holistic Alignment.

THE POWER TO CHANGE

The Power to Change

We are creatures of habit, and we often perpetuate the very habits that we want to change. Even when it is in our best interests to change, our internal resistance often opposes the very changes that we seek.

EMPOWERMENT MOTIVATES; FEAR AND GUILT PARALYSES.

If a proposed change invokes a sense of fear or guilt in the recipient, it reduces any motivation to change. The resulting feelings are more likely to be: apathy, disinterest, powerlessness and hopelessness. What is required is a sense of empowerment, positive choice and action.

ALIGNMENT WITH CORE VALUES

In order to embark on significant change of any kind, we have to consciously and subconsciously be able to “buy into it”. This means that the proposed change must align with our core values. Alignment creates the durability required to endure the process of change, which isn’t always easy. If your core values do not align with the changes you wish to create, any changes made will usually be short lived and will not be sustainable.

We must therefore be aware of what our core values are to begin with. If we realise that our core values do not align with our desired changes, we can choose to reposition and adjust those values to fit with our desired goals. Our values then become the foundation that drives and empowers us in achieving the changes we seek.

PREREQUISITES FOR CHANGE

The following beliefs/prerequisites are essential in making and succeeding with a decision to change. Like core values, the underlying beliefs that a person has must align with the desired changes in order to achieve success.

DO WE BELIEVE THE CHANGE WE SEEK IS:

  • Beneficial, that it will make a positive difference to us, to others or to the world we live in.
  • Possible to achieve.
  • Within our power, ability, skill, support and resources to change.
  • Our responsibility and that we control of our own behaviours and reactions.
  • Within our capability to implementing a specific action or behaviour.
  • Worth the courage required to face our emotional vulnerability

ARE WE WILLING TO:

  • Identify our resistance to change.
  • Explore how our resistance actually serves or protects us.
  • Examine any adverse consequences that could result from the change that we wish to make.

DO WE FEEL THAT:

  • Our desire for the positive outcomes we seek are greater than the energy required to implement the changes.
  • The desire to change outweighs the comfort and familiarity of our current reality or state.
  • Any discomfort of changing, is less than the discomfort of the aspect that we want to change.

If we identify a dissonance or misalignment in any of the above prerequisites to change, success is undermined. This may require further exploration with a therapist or life coach.

THE SEMANTICS OF SUCCESS

When we are truly intent on making a specific change in our lives, we often need to alter the words that we use. These include the words we think as well as words we speak. We need to eradicate “CAN’T” from our vocabulary and entertain the possibility that whatever we want to change is achievable.

Instead of beginning sentences that shut down your own ability or limit possibilities such as:

I don’t; I won’t; I’m not; It’s too difficult; It’s too hard; No…..

CATCH YOURSELF and replace them with:

I could try; I’ll have a think about it; I can; I will; It’s challenging but possible; It’s tricky but achievable; Yes….

THERE ARE NO PROBLEMS; ONLY SOLUTIONS

This is not denial of the very real threats and problems that do exist for us in our lives and in our world. Instead, it’s an attitude we can adopt that supports us in moving towards solving the issues we face. A much better alternative to giving them the power to stop us reaching our goals.
Employing this solutions based principle allows us to make profound personal changes. Changes that improve our health, relationships, living circumstances, families, working lives, society, country, world and planet.

YOU HAVE THE POWER TO CHANGE!

Written by Chrissy Diamond

Holistic Alignment offers a variety of treatments to suit your unique needs. Our Practitioners Chrissy Diamond and Lorelei Messersmith will be happy to discuss any questions you may have regarding your treatment to assist in putting you at ease. Contact Chrissy to book your first Holistic Alignment.



TIME TO SHINE YOUR LIGHT

Time to shine your light

How often do you dim your light down for fear of shining too brightly?

In many ways, our society today is more accepting than ever. Yet there still remain aspects within it that point fingers and ostracize others for being different. Standing out, or expressing a point of view that may not be popular, can sometimes feel like dangerous territory.

Trauma from the past such as physical, sexual or emotional abuse, being picked on, or bullied creates protective mechanisms. Some forms of protection can lead you to shutting down the expression of your pure, essential nature.

The result of shutting down your essential nature is that it creates blockages in your body’s energetic systems. These blockages have a detrimental effect on your physical body, as well as mental and emotional states.

It actually takes a lot of energy to diminish the expression of the life force within you. Your natural state of being is designed to radiate, to be creative, to flow, to change and to grow. Stunting this natural outward movement of energy internalises it leading to stagnation and eventual suffering.

If you’ve continually received encouragement in your pursuits, and only encountered successful endeavours then this message is not for you.

This message is for those of you who have experienced self doubt that led to inner paralysis. Ridicule that led to crippling shame, or punishment for expressing yourself that led you to hiding your radiant light. So somewhere along the way, you decided that it wasn’t okay to be the most authentic, truest version of yourself.

The outcome may have led you to making life choices that didn’t reflect your true desires. These choices create deep feelings of dissatisfaction e.g. life-partner, career, health, home, social-circle and ultimately your passion for life.

Then, throughout the course of life, you forgot that you ever made this decision to stop being your truest self. A gradual feeling of unhappiness eventually crept in on you. The feeling that whatever you have, whatever you do, wherever you are, and whoever you’re with, is not enough. It’s the deeply uncomfortable feeling that something is missing and that something doesn’t quite fit.

At this stage, you can make the error of thinking and feeling that what doesn’t quite fit….is you. Left feeling like a victim of your own life, you externalise your power and project it onto others. Once you have externalised your power, you have abdicated responsibility for your own life. You therefore hold everyone and everything else accountable for your own happiness or your own misery.

Now, you feel REALLY powerless, because you’ve given away your inner authority. Perhaps you now need to numb the loss of your true self through alcohol, drugs, or food. Either that, or you distract yourself with work, work and more work to earn money to satisfy an unknown need? The need to avoid the emptiness inside. Like a boat without a rudder, you are tossed around by life’s storms. Your own body, mind and emotions are now rebelling against you because YOU FORGOT YOURSELF! The thing that you feel is missing…..is YOU!

Okay….take a breath, this can be a difficult realization to arrive at.

If you’ve come to this stage of awareness, how do you connect again with that long lost part of yourself. How turn up your inner light to let yourself shine again?

Get Really Still

Sit still in a chair with your feet on the ground, or sit /lay down on the ground. Connect with your breathing, feel your body rise and fall with your inhalation and exhalation. Feel the aliveness in your body, the subtle vibration tingling inside your skin, this is your life force energy.

Feel What you Feel

Ask yourself: What do you feel physically? Then “listen” to the sensations that your body may feed back to you. Become aware of any tension in your muscles, any pain, heat or cold. Notice any tingling or physical sensation that you may experience without resisting it.

Then ask yourself: What do you feel emotionally? “Listen” to any particular emotion that surfaces; joy, peace, love, excitement, anger, grief, regret, fear, shame. Just notice whatever emotion you are feeling without resisting it.

FORGIVE YOURSELF

No matter why you decided to dim your light down, forgive yourself. Whatever happened that caused you to hide the most authentic version of yourself, forgive yourself. You were responsible for choosing to diminish your light, therefore you are responsible for claiming back your true power. You do this by forgiving yourself.

Make a new decision to shine now

You’re still alive and there is no time like the present. Don’t waste a single moment more by regretting the time that you spent dimming your light down. Shine baby shine…..shine like the sun because that is what you were born to do. Shine in your unique way that only you can do!

Ask yourself:

What does the deepest part of me desire?

Pay attention to what arises in response to this question and make a commitment to follow to the answer. Give yourself permission to express your own unique light and let it shine brightly.

This is the way back home to yourself.

I’d like to share a poem written by Marianne Williamson that expresses this truth so beautifully.

OUR GREATEST FEAR



Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.       



Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.



It is our light not our darkness that most frightens us.



We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented and fabulous?



Actually, who are you not to be?



You are a child of God.



Your playing small does not serve the world.



There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you.       



We were born to make manifest the glory ofGod that is within us.        It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone.



And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. 



As we are liberated from our own fear,Our presence automatically liberates others.  —Marianne Williamson

I wish you the courage to be your truest self and to let your essential nature radiate and shine brilliantly which is your ultimate purpose.

Written by Christine Diamond

Holistic Alignment offers a variety of treatments to suit your unique needs. Our Practitioners Chrissy Diamond and Lorelei Messersmith will be happy to discuss any questions you may have regarding your treatment to assist in putting you at ease. Contact Chrissy to book your first Holistic Alignment.


WELCOME TO YOUR MID-YEAR WELLBEING CHECK

We are now half way through the year and we’ve passed the shortest day of the year in New Zealand. So it’s a good time to take stock of our wellbeing and the goals that we have set for the year.

By the time we reach mid-year we’ve we’ve already spent a lot of energy getting to where we are. We may have achieved some of what we’d set ourselves to accomplish. Perhaps we’ve had a few unforeseen events occur that have altered our planned course. Yet we can still feel that we have a mountain ahead of us to climb.

This is a good time to look back at just how much ground we’ve covered. We can also take inventory and celebrating our milestones and what we have already achieved. Making amendments to goals that have changed or are no longer achievable is also important. So that we can set new achievable goals and correct our course of action if we need to.

TAKING YOUR PERSONAL WELLNESS INVENTORY

I would like to quote directly from “Mind Over Medicine” written by Lissa Rankin, MD, who has come up with the following categories of optimal health that can be used as an example for taking your personal wellness inventory.

Welcome to your mid-year wellbeing check
  • “Healthy Relationships, including a strong network of family, friends, loved ones, and colleagues
  • A healthy, meaningful way to spend your days, whether you work outside the home or in it
  • A healthy, fully expressed creative life, that allows your soul to sing its song
  • A healthy spiritual life, including a sense of connection to the sacred in life
  • A healthy sexual life, that allows you the freedom to express your erotic self and explore fantasies
  • A healthy financial life, free of undue financial stress, which ensures that the essential needs of your body are met
  • A healthy environment, free of toxins, natural disaster hazards, radiation, and other unhealthy factors that threaten the health of the body
  • A healthy mental and emotional life, characterized by optimism and happiness and free of fear, anxiety, depression, and other mental health ailments
  • A healthy lifestyle that supports the physical health of the body, such as good nutrition, regular exercise, adequate sleep, and avoidance of unhealthy addictions”

Compare your own life in regards to these categories, what matters to you and where you put yourself on this spectrum of optimal health. This will give you an indication of areas of your life that you can celebrate, and areas that you’d like to improve.

CELEBRATE WHAT’S WORKING

It can be helpful to put pen to paper and actually list the things that are working for you, the relationships that you cherish, the material things that you have attained and appreciate, the activities that enliven you, the goals or partial goals that you’ve already achieved this year, the health and wellness that you enjoy in your life right now.

The reason this step is important is because you mustn’t just treat yourself as continual self-improvement project. Yes, there are always things you can improve on no matter what stage of your life you are at, that’s evolution and you are meant to evolve. However, you also need to celebrate your victory’s, to stop and “smell the roses” once in a while.

Welcome to your mid-year wellbeing check

So CELEBRATE! Celebrate what you’ve achieved in all facets of your life this year so far and actually DO SOMETHING to mark your milestone. It doesn’t have to be big, and it doesn’t have to cost a lot. Just to something in appreciation of yourself and where you’re at right now.

RE-SET YOUR GOALS

Write down those areas of your life that you’ve identified that you’d like to improve on and brainstorm some ideas of how you could start to implement those changes.

It’s important to make these “next-half-of-year-goals” achievable, so that you’re not sabotaging yourself at the outset by trying to accomplish too much. These goals are more of a gentle tweak of your initial goals rather than a full blown re-writing of your life, so go easy and make them attainable.

SET THE WHEELS IN MOTION

Whatever your newly adjusted goals are, just take one small step towards them daily and don’t think about it too much. The thinking part comes in the assessing, planning and setting of the goals according to what it is that YOU want, and what you consider to be achievable. So when it comes to the doing part, thought is not required.

If you lack motivation, it doesn’t matter, take that small step anyway. If you experience feelings of resistance, it doesn’t matter, take that small step anyway. Feelings of resistance come and go and they are not the decider of what you do, YOU ARE.

If, however, the New Zealand winter has paid you a wee visit with a virus, cold, illness or fatigue….Rest, Replenish, Rejuvenate and Restore. Sometimes our illnesses are mother nature’s way of giving us a compulsory break and if this is the case for you, park those goals. They’ll still be there when you have recharged again.

Welcome to your mid-year wellbeing check

ALL THE BEST OF HEALTH AND WELLNESS TO YOU

Written by: Chrissy Diamond

Holistic Alignment offers a variety of treatments to suit your unique needs. Our Practitioners Chrissy Diamond and Lorelei Messersmith will be happy to discuss any questions you may have regarding your treatment to assist in putting you at ease. Contact Chrissy to book your first Holistic Alignment.



ARE YOU CARRYING OTHER PEOPLE’S STUFF?

THE “HOW TO” OF LETTING IT GO

I’ve recently noticed a theme with my clients of people taking on other peoples energy as if it were their own. In doing so they create yet another layer of stress for themselves. How often have you caught yourself being consumed by other’s concerns, battles, or injustices as if happening to you?

There is an old adage, “A problem shared is a problem halved”. Although this can be true of the person sharing, the one supporting can doesn’t help by taking the burden themselves.

In a culture of emerging mental health awareness there’s been a long overdue acknowledgement of the reality of the experience. This has created a positive cultural shift of supporting those in need. It is therefore vital to learn to support others without taking on, ‘their stuff” and potentially derailing ourselves.

TURN UP THE VOLUME ON YOUR SELF AWARENESS

Are you carrying other people’s stuff?

To let go of other peoples’ stuff, you must learn the difference between what is yours and what is theirs. This involves turning up the volume on your own level of self awareness.

Becoming self aware is like learning several languages at once; physical, mental, emotional and energetic. Each aspect has subtle nuances of sensation and experience. When you are able to perceive through all of your senses simultaneously, this is your current baseline of awareness. To discern what you feel in your body, mind, emotions and energy field at any given time; is to illuminate your awareness of yourself.

Then, if your baseline equilibrium changes, either physically, mentally, emotionally, or energetically, you can notice when and how it happened. You can then take measures to re-balance and find your centre again. Yet that’s only dealing with yourself….how do you tell the difference between what’s yours and what’s theirs?

THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WHAT’S YOURS AND THEIRS

An analogy I like to use to explain how to discern between what’s yours and what’s theirs, is that of hanging a coat on a hook. If you hang a coat on the door and there is no hook, the coat will fall to the floor. The same occurs if someone tries to ‘hang’ something on you and you don’t have an internal hook. If you aren’t triggered by another, e.g. you don’t feel charged in your response or reaction…. it’s not yours.

I need to explain here that it doesn’t mean that you are un-empathic or do not feel anything at all. The subtle difference between feeling what’s theirs and what’s yours, is the level of potency and charge that is felt. For example: when feeling someone else’s stuff, it’s like watching a movie that makes you feel sad. You feel the sadness on a certain level, but its not as intense as when you’re experiencing your own grief. When feeling your own stuff, the feeling is more personal to you and has a much greater potency and charge.

When it comes to feeling others’ stuff, the ‘other’ may be: your partner, family member, friend, stranger, colleague or boss. The “other’ can also be a cultural group, e.g. your entire family, company, city, country or the earth herself.

SELF HONESTY AND OWNING WHAT’S YOURS

Self-honesty is paramount when it comes to discerning between what belongs to someone else and what belongs to you. If what is going on for someone else triggers you to feel charged up, its yours as well. It could be a memory, an idea, a principle or value, disappointment, sadness, embarrassment or humiliation, or a shameful event. In order to regain your peace and equilibrium, it’s necessary for you to own it and process it.

It’s important here not to blame how or what you feel on someone else. If you feel it with potency, even if someone else triggered it, it still belongs to you. Gaining the support of a talking therapist of body practitioner may be beneficial to assist you in processing the trigger.

ROLE PLAYING

Sometimes, taking on or carrying the stuff of the ‘other’ can be the result of a role that you’ve been cast in. You may have continued to play this role throughout your life. Such roles could be: rescuer, carer, organiser, the responsible one, the reliable one, the strong one, the capable one. There may also have been a certain pay off for you in playing this role. For example: gaining confidence, control, love, being liked, feeling useful, special, strong or even feeling superior. The question to ask yourself is: “Does this role serve you now?” and if so “In what way?”.

If you are experiencing the adverse effects of carrying other peoples’ stuff, and you want to change this, it may be necessary to evaluate the role that you have played and give yourself permission to resign from that historical role and take up a position that’s better suited to what you would prefer to experience now.

ENABLING OTHERS

Your intention may be positive in taking the load off others in order to help them, but in doing so, could you be enabling their reliance on you? When you enable other people, by carrying their load for them, you can unintentionally rob them of the inner power and authority that they will gain in the process of learning to be responsible for themselves. You may even resent them for not taking responsibility for themselves and never really see that you could potentially be contributing to the problem by carrying more than your share.

A PERSONAL NOTE

Growing up as a highly sensitive being with an over-developed empathic nature meant that I could feel Everything and Everyone around me like listening to, and experiencing life, with the volume at MAX. I used to find this incredibly overwhelming and anxiety producing as I unconsciously thought that what I was feeling was all mine, and somehow my fault, my karma or whatever my young mind perceived to by my own personal burden. When I first encountered my kinesthetic ability to sense the ailments of ‘others’ within my own body, it totally freaked me out but it did give me my first reference of ‘mine’ and ‘theirs’.

After years of development and understanding of both the interconnectedness and simultaneous separateness between myself and others, I attained a sense of freedom. This freedom came from being able to understand that what I was feeling was simply not all mine, it was a huge relief that dissolved both my personal overwhelm and anxiety, guilt and overdeveloped sense of responsibility for everyone and everything.

So the pure awareness that NOT everything I was feeling was mine alone, allowed me to disconnect from the unconscious pressure of continuously carrying all that weight and instead to give myself permission to be able to pick it up and put it down.

From personal experience, I understand it can be upsetting and frustrating to be unaware of the stress of carrying others’ stuff building up until we are flattened by its weight. It can make us feel very disconnected with ourselves and it can be unnerving and make us question “whats the point” especially if we’re consciously motivated from a positive intention to help others. If anything, let it be yet another of ‘life’s’ encouraging ways of getting you to pay attention to yourself.

FINDING THE WAY THROUGH

Are you carrying other peoples stuff?
Are you carrying other people’s stuff?

As discussed, finding the way through involves learning to understand how we uniquely experience our body, mind, emotions and energy field allows us to have an internal barometer as a measure for when we’re starting to wobble and get out of balance.

Resigning from our old historical roles that no longer serve us and intentionally changing this habitual nature by allowing others to carry their own weight and gain their own sense of resilience and inner authority, is incredibly liberating in itself. Then discerning between our own felt experience and that of others is yet another level of subtle re-positioning of ourselves that allows us to navigate through life in a far more deliberate, satisfying and unburdened way.

LIVING WITHIN DUALITY

Living as a human being on earth succumbs us to an existence of experiencing dualities: day/night, dark/light, gravity/weightlessness, bad/good, joy/sorrow, love/fear, them/us…..yet from the quantum perspective, we are all energetically connected and without separation.

So, in terms of quantum energy, there is no ‘them’ to speak of, and everything is all ‘us’. Therefore in the end, whether what we experience is ours or theirs….given that on some level we’re all interconnected and reflect one another, then what is theirs is also ours and our power to effect the world around us lies in how we respond to whatever and whoever it is that we encounter. The art of life as I am continually learning to understand it, is in balancing our separateness and uniqueness with our simultaneous interconnectedness and finding the joy in both.

All the best in finding yours

Written by: Chrissy Diamond


Holistic Alignment offers a variety of treatments to suit your unique needs. Our Practitioners Chrissy Diamond and Lorelei Messersmith will be happy to discuss any questions you may have regarding your treatment to assist in putting you at ease. Contact Chrissy to book your first Holistic Alignment.